Catholic Wedding Clergy

 

for Northern California

Mare Island, CA 94592
ph: 707 554-2803

The Rite of Marriage

 

 

American Catholic

Rite of Marriage  

 

RITE OF MARRIAGE and EUCHARIST (Mass)

Entrance Song or Sacred Music

Introductory Rite

Gathering and Welcome

Penitential Rite 

Opening Prayer

Liturgy of the Word

First Reading:_________________________

Second Reading:_______________________

Gospel Proclamation

Homily

Rite of Marriage

Introduction Address

Statement of Intentions

Consent

Reception of Consent

Blessing of Wedding Rings

Exchange of Rings

Liturgy of the Eucharist 

Preparation of the Gifts

Invitation to Prayer

Eucharistic Prayer

Communion Rite

The Lord's Prayer

Sign of Peace

Breaking of the Bread

Reception of Communion

(Song or sacred music while people receiving communion)

(In the ancient tradition of the Old Catholic Church and the Diocese of California all People of God are welcome Table of the Lord to receive communion)

Song or Sacred Music after Communion (Ave Maria sugested)

Cultural or special rituals: (i.e. Exchange of roses, unity candle, rope binding, sharing of coins etc.)

1.______________________________________

2.______________________________________

3.______________________________________

Bride and Groom exchange kiss

Presentation of Newlyweds

Nuptial Blessing

Announcements

Final Blessing and Sending Forth

Song or Sacred Music

Options:

Bridal Party:___________________________

Music:________________________________

Reading/reader #1:_____________________________

Reading/Reader #2:_____________________________

Consent (exchange of vows):_______________

Cultural or special rituals:_________________

 

 

CATHOLC RITE OF MARRIAGE (Outside of Mass)

Introductory Rite

Gathering and Welcome

Opening prayer

Liturgy of the Word

First Reading: (optional) (Reader#1)

Second Reading: (optional) (Reader #2)

Gospel Proclamation and Homily

Rite of Marriage

Introduction Address

Statement of Intentions:

Consent  (vows)

Reception of Consent

Blessing and Exchange of Wedding Rings

General Intercessions: (optional) (Reader #3)

Cultural or special rituals: (i.e. Exchange of roses, unity candle, rope binding, sharing of coins etc.) (optional)

Bride and Groom exchange kiss (optional)

Presentation of Newlyweds Nuptial Blessing (optional)

Lord's Prayer (optional)

AnnouncementsFinal Blessing and Sending Forth

 

Reading Options for Wedding Rite

First Reading: Hebrew Testament (Old Testament):

Genesis 1:26-28 (Male and female he created them)

Genesis 2:18-24 (And they will be two in one flesh)

Genesis 24:48-51, 58-67 (Isaac loved Rebeckah, and so he was consoled for the loss of his mother)

Tobit 7:9-10, 11-17 (May God join you together)

Tobit 8:5-10 (May God bring us to old age together)

Song of Songs 2:8-10, 14, 16; 8:6-7 (For love is as strong as death)

Ecclesiatasticus 26:1-4, 16-21 (Like the sun rising is the beauty of a good wife in a well-kept house)

Jeremiah 31:31-32, 33-34 (I will make a new covenant with the House of

Israel and Judah)

Second Reading: (Christian Scriptures)

Romans 8:31-35, 37-39 (Who will separate us from the love of Christ?)

12:1-2, 9-18 (Offer to God you bodies as a living sacrifice)

1 Corinthians 6:13-15, 17-20 (You body is a temple of the Spirit)

12:31-13:8a (If I am without love, it will do me no good whatever.

Ephesians 5:2, 21-33 or 2, 25-32 (This mystery has many implications and it applies to Christ and the Church)

Colossians 3:12-17 (Above all have love, which is the bond of perfection)

1 Peter 3:1-9 (You should agree with one another, be sympathetic and love the brothers)

1 John 3:18-24 (Our love is to be something real and active)

1 John 4:7-12 (God is love)

Revelation 19:1, 5-9 (Happy are those who are invited to the wedding feast)

Gospel Reading

 

     

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    Religious Services

    The Holy Eucharist, the principal act of Christian worship of the Lord's Day (Sunday) and other major Feasts, and Daily Morning and Evening Prayer, are the regular services appointed for public worship in this church. In addition to these services other forms or rites are set forth by the authority within this church may be used. These rites as used when celebrating the seven sacraments. In all services, the entire Christian assembly participates in such a way that the members of each order within the Church, lay persons, bishops, priests, and deacons, fulfill the functions proper to their respective orders, as set forth in the rubical directions for each service.

    Sacraments

    The sacraments are moments of God touching our lives in a special way and opportunities for growth in our relationship with God.

    Baptism
    The Rite of Baptism incorporates us into Christ and forms us into God's people. This first sacrament pardons all our sins, rescues us from the power of darkness, and brings us to the dignity of adopted children, a new creation through water and the Holy Spirit. Hence we are called and are indeed the children of God. It is a very ancient custom of the Church that adults are not admitted to baptism without godparents. These are members of the Christian community who will assist the candidates at least in the final preparation for baptism and, after baptism, will help them preserve in the faith and in their lives as Christians. The ordinary ministers of baptism are bishops, priests and deacons. The words for conferring baptism in the Church are: "I baptize you in the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit"

     

    Confirmation
    Those who have been baptized continue on the path of Christian initiation through the sacrament of confirmation. In this sacrament they receive the Holy Spirit whom the Lord sent upon the apostles on Pentecost. This giving of the Holy Spirit confirms believers more fully to Christ and strengthens them so that they may bear witness to Christ for the building up of his Body in faith and love. They are so marked with the character or seal of the Lord that the sacrament of confirmation cannot be repeated. Great pains are taken to give the liturgical service the festive and solemn character that its significance for the local Church requires. The ordinary minister of confirmation is the bishop. The sacrament is conferred through the anointing with chrism (Holy Oil) on the forehead, which is done by the laying on of the hand, and through the words: "Be sealed with the gift of the Holy Spirit"

     

    Eucharistic Feast
    The Mass. When Christ the Lord was about to celebrate the Passover meal with his disciples and instituted the sacrifice of his body and blood, he directed them to prepare a large, furnished room. The sacrificial nature of the mass was solemnly proclaimed through the ages in the church councils by saying: "at the Last Supper our Savior instituted the Eucharistic sacrifice of his body and blood to perpetuate the sacrifice of the cross through the centuries until he comes again. He entrusted it to his bride, the Church, as a memorial of his resurrection. This teaches us that the sacrifice of the cross and its sacramental renewal in the Mass are one and the same, differing only in the manner of offering. It is at once a sacrifice of praise and of thanksgiving, a sacrifice that reconciles us to the Father and makes amends to him for the sins of the world. The Church believes that the Lord Jesus is really present among us in a wonderful way under the Eucharistic species. The distinctive nature of the ministerial priesthood is clear from the prominent place the presbyter occupies and functions taken in the rite itself: the presbyter offers sacrifice in the person of Christ and presides over the assemble of God's hold people. The ministerial priesthood throws light on another and important priesthood, namely, the royal priesthood of believers. Their spiritual sacrifice of today is accomplished through the ministry of the presbyter, in union with the sacrifice of Christ, our one and only Mediator. The celebration of the Eucharist is the action of the whole Church, in which each individual should take their own full part and only their part, as determined by their particular position in the people of God.

    This is the order of the Mass: Introductory Rites - Entrance Song, Greeting - Penitential Rite - the Gloria - Opening Prayer - Liturgy of the Word - a reading from the Old Testament - Responsorial Psalm - a reading from New Testament - a reading from one of the Gospels - Homily - Profession of Faith - General Intercessions - Liturgy of the Eucharist - presentation of the gifts - prayer of the gifts - Eucharistic Prayer - reciting of the Sanctus - Memorial Acclamation - Final Doxology - Communion Rite - Lord's Prayer - Sign of Peace - Breaking of the Bread - Communion - Prayer after Communion - Concluding Rite - Greeting - Blessing - Dismissal

     

    Penance (Reconciliation)
    The Sacrament of Reconciliation stresses the healing presence of Christ. This is not merely the telling of specific sins but a compassionate forgiveness of one's sinfulness in an attitude of sorrow. Penitents can opt to receive the sacrament either anonymously in the confessional or face-to-face. Reconciliation is a personal encounter with Jesus Christ represented by the priest. The penitent admits to God that he or she has sinned, makes an act of sorrow, accepts a penance, and resolves to do better in the future. The priest prays over the person in these words: "God, the Father of mercies, through the death and resurrection of his Son has reconciled the world to himself and set the Holy Spirit among us for forgiveness of sins; through the ministry of the Church may God give you pardon and peace, and I absolve you from your sins in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit."

     

    Anointing of the Sick
    The anointing of the sick gives spiritual strength and healing to those who are aged or ill. This sacrament may be received any time during illness. In this sacrament God invites believers to commune with him in the light of their final meeting with him. Through this sacrament, the entire Church asks God to lighten suffering, forgive sins, and bring the faithful to eternal salvation. Anointing of the sick helps them to share more fully in the cross of Christ. By so sharing, they contribute to the spiritual good of the whole Church. By the fact they share more fully in the cross of Christ through anointing, they are being prepared for a fuller share in Christ's Resurrection. The priest presides over this sacrament. The anointing of the side is with blessed oil.

     

    Matrimony
    Jesus took marriage and made it the sacrament of matrimony. As a result, matrimony gives a new dimension to the Christian vocation that begins in baptism. In matrimony two people are called to love each other in a very practical way; by serving each other's most personal needs; by working seriously at communicating their personal thoughts and feelings to each other so their oneness is always alive and growing. It is a sacramental vocation in and for the Church. It is a medium through which Christ reveals and deepens the mystery of his oneness with us, his Body. In the Church, a couple's sacramental union is exclusive. This is the one sacrament that is conferred not by the priest but by the ones marrying. The priest witnesses the sacrament and gives the Church's blessing of the marriage.

     

    Holy Orders: Ministerial Priesthood
    Christ is the Body of the Church. As such, the whole Church shares in the nature and tasks of Christ, our head. There is though a ministerial priesthood of Christ that certain members of the Church receive through the sacrament of holy orders. In the Eucharistic sacrifice the ordained priest acts 'in the person of Christ" and offers the sacrifice to God in the name of all, and the people join with the priest in that offering. Priests share in Christ's ministry by preaching his gospel, doing all in their power to bring their people to Christian maturity. They baptize, heal, forgive sin in the sacrament of penance, and act as the Church witness in the sacraments of matrimony and anointing of the sick. Most importantly, priests celebrate the Eucharist, which is "the center of the assembly of the faithful over which the priest presides" When priests are ordained, they "are signed with a special character," an interior capability that empowers them to "act in the person of Christ the head." This special inner "character" unites priests in a sacramental bond with one another - a fact that, in a sense, sets them apart from other people. This "being set apart" is meant to help priests do God's work with total dedication.

    These are the sacraments of the Church. We celebrate these sacraments as a whole and are the main activities of the church. Other activities include funerals of the departed, para-liturgical services: devotions and prayer services, etc.





     

    Mare Island, CA 94592
    ph: 707 554-2803